What fear stops you from doing what you love?
I’ve been on this journey of building a coaching practice for a little over a year now. I love the coaching side of it. I even love some of the business side of it. There is a side to building a practice I don’t love (yet)! A side I even fear: networking!
The word ‘networking’ immediately causes images to pop into my head of events where I always felt extremely uncomfortable.
These events often felt ‘salesy’ with lots of business cards exchanging hands.
When I had to attend them my preferred ‘modus operandi’ was to get a drink and find a nice quiet corner. From there I would observe and listen.
What can I say? I’m an introvert and that’s what introverts do. We observe and listen.
Don’t get me wrong! I’m not a recluse. I will totally engage when I’m in the company of people I already know. Or with people I have a connection (like a common interest or passion) with.
But I always feared having to go out into the world and network.
And now I have to go networking again! How else will people know about me and the coaching I do?
Or do I?
I’m learning networking is not about all the things I saw happen (but never did) back in my corporate days.
It is not about being salesy or giving out and collecting as many business cards as I can.
Communication expert Amy Castro sums up my attitude towards networking nicely:
Nice to know I’m not alone in this.
Talking to my own coach about this subject also proved helpful. She made this observation:
Suppose I had just broken the binding on one of my skis.
Taking the cable car down the mountain I strike up a conversation with the guy sitting next to me.
Turns out he is an expert at repairing skis and bindings and offers to help out.
Would I refuse his help? Of course not. I would totally take him up on his offer.
I’d then find out what I could do for him. Pay him for his service or do something else to return the favour.
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Slowly my view of networking has been changing.
I’m still not comfortable with connecting with people when I don’t yet know them. Or with people I haven’t spoken to in a long time.
Nor for that matter am I completely at ease in social settings even when I know lots of people there. I may always be too much of an introvert to ever get to that point.
But …
[bctt tweet=”I have to abandon my fear if I am to live life doing what I love! #DareGreatly #AbandonAllFear” username=”GerdiVwt”]So beware, I might just be reaching out to you soon to find out how I can help you!
In preparation (just kidding!) I’d like you to consider this question:
What fear stops you from doing the thing you love?
As always …
#LiveYourOwnLife #LiveUpToYourOwnExpectations
Now go dare greatly and live up to your own expectations!
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